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Writer's pictureUrmil Wadhwa

When you feel "you are not enough"?

Updated: May 21

I see this phrase thrown around a lot these days, “you are enough”. Have you ever wondered what does it mean?


You are enough means; you have it all already. You are the child of God, and you are perfect as you are. All you need to do is accept yourself as a whole together with your weaknesses and strengths. None of us is perfect, we are all work in progress.



When we put conditions on our worth and our value as human beings, such as our appearance, our finances, or our social accomplishments we cannot feel good enough. Conditions like, I must look a certain way, or I must be valued and appreciated by others, or I need to make some sort of accomplishment in society. If we believe that any outer condition will create our worth -- the worth that we feel we don’t have right now --then we believe a pure lie.


We are raised in a society and culture that awards the rich and beautiful. But guess what? Even many people who are rich and beautiful are miserable as well. They may have flawless public façade. When we always compare ourselves to others, we either suffer from ego or jealousy. That is the epitome of insecurity.


Accepting yourself as a whole might bring about vulnerability issues. Yes, you may feel vulnerable, and fear being judged but that is what is required for your further social, mental, spiritual, or financial growth. Accept that wherever you are right now in life is where you were meant to be. Do not judge yourself, do not criticize yourself, do not loathe yourself just accept it and move forward.


Has anyone ever complimented you sincerely and you’ve found yourself saying, “No, that’s not true…” to their compliment? There are people who have seen so much good in you, but perhaps you haven’t believed it or felt it for yourself on the inside.


You are a unique creation of the universe, you have value, and just about the fact that you exist, you deserve to have it all. You are enough may also mean that you were made to be you as you are on purpose. It means you don’t have to strive to become more worthy, more valid, more acceptable, or more loved. You are already all those things. Your Higher Self loves you unconditionally, make more time to connect with it on a regular basis. Just be yourself, being yourself means to be more open, to be more honest, and to be truer to yourself and others. Being more authentic more connected, more intentional, and more purposeful are the expressions of enoughness.


Believing in yourself gives you the courage to ignore what others think of you. If you continue to look outside yourself for something that can only be found within, you will be forever lost and you will live your whole life feeling like there is something missing, but you will not know what. Don’t let that happen to you.


Learn to love and accept yourself for who you are, for what you have and what you know, and by doing so you will be able to become more of it. Only by loving and accepting yourself will you be able to allow your relationships to blossom and bring out the best in you. By allowing yourself to be who you really are deep down inside and by acknowledging that in this moment: You are enough, you have value, and you deserve to have it all, you will rediscover inner peace and happiness.


Work on mastering yourself and know that by mastering yourself, you master LOVE and you master LIFE.

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